When I was stationed in Colorado, USA, the United States terrorist attacks of "9.11" has occurred.

I had watched the TV Interview program of the Japanese participants of the attacks.

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When the husband of a married couple had being involved in this accident and gone missing, his father was about to go the U.S.,

At that time, the wife of the married couple had told the father

"Father. Don't worry. I am O.K."

And she had asked him to stop coming to the U.S.

The father seemed to have been very impressed with saying

"She was acting courageously"

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At that time, I felt in my bones that the father has misunderstood the wife's intention.

- The wife would be to have been running around in desperation, in order to determine the life and death of the husband every day.

- She wanted to find a husband somehow thought any grabbing and even trivial information.

- If the father-in-law, who could not speak English, not goes out of the airport, not go to a restaurant, and not go to the accident site, was coming,

"She could not search and collect any information, and could not do anything."

- In a word "disturbing"

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Of course, if the father-in-law could search his son by himself through another, it was better.

But if he was going to count for the wife's assist, it would be nothing more than "disturbing".

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I want to expand the above story to everyday's story.

The "consolation" is "disturbing" if you rely on the support of local.

My work is going to be stopped by you.

I don't need any free dinner party at all.

If you do not see care of yourself, please do not come to me.

That's enough already.