The other day the eldest daughter and the second daughter(SD) together , said
"We do not have "courtly power""
And I was told that a part of the cause is also in my educational policy in my family.
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Ebata:"What is "courtly power"?"
SD:""In a dictionary,"courtly" is "to behave in expectation of others' kindness or kindness"
Ebata:"You do the "behaviour" don't you?"
SD:"However, in your case, there is no effect, even if we behave that"
Ebata:"So?"
SD:"In the world, I heard that there is a father who asked his daughter "What do you want?""
Ebata: "A strange father in the world is. In my case, I absolutely will not do such things even if a natural disaster occurs"
SD:"I know it well"
Ebata:"My policy as a a head of the Ebata family, is "Grab things you want, on your own"
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SD: "So, at my home there is no opportunity to demonstrate of "courtly"
Ebata:""Well, you make a lover soon and do it for training "courtly power"