When my wife is asked about her husband (it's me) by her friends,, she is always trouble in answering the question.

Friend:"Well, he is a mild person."

Wife;"No. Never"

Friend:"So, when he get emotional, he becomes out of control."

Wife;"Incorrect"

How to say, my wife cannot explain about

"a person, who observe the situation, take profit into account, and can control the emotion"

This is the reason.

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Friend;" Does it mean that he can play like anger.

Wife:"It is not correct. if I make him angry, he becomes a monster."

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Meanwhile, I have never been trouble in explaining about my wife at a drinking party etc.

Colleague: "What is your wife like?"

Ebata: "She is a wife of this Tomoichi Ebata""

Just after hearing that,

Everyone says "I understand" at any time.