In my home, I continue to say to my children as a follow,

(1) With just effort, we can not win genius

(2) Many dreams are largely unreachable

Because these are facts.

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However, as those antithesis,

(A) Some people come to win genius, if the persons don't compare that "something" with others and the world, and can enjoy "something" self-sufficiently, even without talent.

(B) Many people are not aiming for a dream, but they call "something" that had been realized, as "dream", after retrofitting

I added the result of the big data analysis of my life.

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However, these stories have already been spoken by old wise person before my analysis, and have also been proved by various histories and academic disciplines.

For example, (A) is spoken in "Analects" and (B) has a lot of evidences from historical tampering in past wars and human psychology (reinforcement after retrofit).

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Adults and educators, should not tell children "Let boys and girls embrace" reckless ambitions "and experience" intense setbacks " but Tell them exactly about (A) (B).

After all, we adults should tell them,

"The process of "fulfilling dreams" is to live in a world of madness and loneliness with enjoying it alone."

(To be continued)