In the Ebata, both father and mother encourage their daughters to love relationship.

They want to say "It’s not your business"

Well, I said to them,

"Than people who just criticize others romance, people who do romance itself is, even if it's bad unsightly, ...."

Then, I thought at once.

What is the word that comes to this "..." part?

"strong"? "cool"? "correct"? "persuasive"?

It is different.

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The phrase I said to my daughter,

"Even if it's bad unsightly, a people who is in love is a "ruling party""

"In the 'opposition party', - you remain "the opposition party""