I lived in a boarding house during my college life, It is a distant area far from the university, and very bad transportation, for example, the departure time of last bus is 15:40.

# This is a story of those days. When I visited a few years ago, it was a big new residential area, and the subway line was built.

I have never delinquent rent for a 4-year boarding period, in addition, the landlord's favor, I was allowed to use the main house's bath every other day.

This is a story at the boarding house.

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One night (at around 23 o'clock midnight), the landlord came to visit and knocked on my room.

I got consultation.

"My son wants to quit college. what should I do?"

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Needless to say, I was an active college student at the time.

It was lucky that, I had happy days. I could immerse myself in researching interesting subjects, with friends who were motivated to study.

I knew the feeling of "wanting to quit university" "exists" and I understand that feeling. However I was too lucky to understand the feeling at the time.

And then, the words I spoke then surprised myself.

"Well. I think that it would be better for your son to graduate from college."

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I am still writing fun ideas and remarks in blogs and serial series.

However, when I was a college student, I was keeping on with words, far more radical (extreme) and avant-garde, than what I am saying now.

The saying surprised me, "What commonsense, obsolete, and bore words are!".

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I think that the inside of my head at that time was like this.

(1) Basically, we can graduate by attending a lecture properly, taking notes, receiving tests and writing a report (graduation thesis).

(2) Whatever the grades, once we can graduate from college, the title "Bachelor's Degree" comes along without fail.

(3)The title of "Bachelor Degree" is something that is acceptable for anyone in the world.

(4) First of all, what do the public think about human beings who have abandoned the above (1) while having good luck of passing the university and a happy environment where students can continue their studies

"I will not forgive him/her"

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Of course, I am well aware that the concepts (1) - (4) above are too simplistic ideas.

My girls taught me "hell" named "school" in a word that bleeds blood.

And I should have thought of the hatred feelings for the "school" that still remains in mine.

When I receive consultation with these cases, I have to

"make judgements taking comprehensive consideration of the qualities of the individual, human relationships, mental conditions, etc."

In conclusion, I think that "I was an active college student was inappropriate as a consultant."

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Well, I am repeatedly stating extreme remarks from my daily life. However at the root, I am just a "petit bourgeois" being bound by

"common sense"

So, for me, "it is annoying to have too much expectation".