Last weekend, when we went to family dinner in a restaurant after a long interval, my second daughter said,

"We don't invite a fattish girl to go shopping.

I was frightened to hear the story.

I shouted to her "Do you have a part in bullying ?", however, she told me with philosophy

"I cannot invite her, even if I want to do"

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In the story, "shopping" means "to go to clothes outlets"

If going a clothes outlets, they have no choice but to go to a store for an average girls high school size.

In that case, inviting that "girls away from the average body shape" to shopping, is going to to be an uncomfortable atmosphere for both the inviting side and the invited side.

Because my wife was also nodding deeply, I think that "they do not invite a fat girl to clothes outlets" is common sense among women.

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I had been serializing about a diet for nearly a year, however I did not notice for such a point of view at all.

I am shocked to know that diet for women is "a necessary condition for belonging to a group" more than being "a measure to become beautiful".

Again, I feel that "there are too many things I do not know".