One word that is no longer heard these days is "self-discovery.

"Who I am"

This is a philosophical question, but I know the best and shortest way to find the answer.

Becoming a Party to "Childcare" and/or "Caregiving"

That's all.

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I can already "see" myself that I didn't recognize.

Especially when I reach my physical and mental limits, I can see nakedly the "black emotions" that lurk within me -- I am surprised at myself.

It is said that "the nature of a person is revealed on the battlefield under extreme conditions.

"In this sense, "childcare" and "caregiving" could be described as a quasi-battlefield situation.

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Of course, you do not have to go to the battlefield by preference.

Is it OK to live in evasion of these things？ -- it's OK (Rakuten Card commercial style).

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However, speaking personally -- I think that people who have been "involved in "childcare" and/or "caregiving" are "trustworthy".

On the other hand, we are also aware that this "experience-history principle" has become a breeding ground for so-called marriage harassment, childcare harassment, and caregiver harassment.