Many people say that first impressions are important in love.
I, too, agree with this.
However, I believe that first impressions are significant, not only in love but in any situation.
Based on the impression I get from the first talk, I think, 'Which persona shall I use for this person from now on?
I use several personas for the same person if necessary.
In stacked meetings, drinking parties, etc., I try to act as a completely different persona to get through the situation (although sometimes I can't).
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I acted as a "radical activist" when I attended for admission to the university's self-governing dormitory.
In reality, however, I had never been a "radical activist" before, and even after that, I was just an ordinary college student studying usually.
Therefore, I was called a "liar" in the dormitory.
I even played with making a "remote-controlled detonator" and verifying "hydrogen combustion."
When I did job interviews, I portrayed myself as a graduate student struggling with the difference between hypothesis and proof in an experiment.
I had a highly calculated (ulterior motive) that this persona should be attractive in the engineering company.
Nevertheless, every persona is still me.
I change the switch and volume of the persona depending on the situation.
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As you know, I am completely different in the column than in the office.
It is at the level of, "I wouldn't be surprised if we got into a fistfight in my mind.
But "using multiple personas" is a normal act of a normal person.
I remember the above when I remembered seeing and hearing
"the voice and expression on my second daughter's face as she was doing a remote job interview on her laptop."
In other words,
"Another daughter is possessing my daughter."