(Continuation from yesterday)
"I was bullying in this way when I was a child.”
Such an actual experience of adults should be more convincing than arranging a bunch of bullying damages and their remedies.
This is because those who are bullying are not aware that they are the bullyers at all.
But such a story does not come out.
It will not come out from now on.
Talking to a child about "I was a bully performer" is a terrible and painful thing.
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When I was in the fourth grade of elementary school, I was giving a little to the girl in the next seat with a fun and playful feeling.
At that time, when I was called by my homeroom teacher and heard that I was receiving a complaint from a girl, I was naturally surprised. More than that, I noticed
"I am a perpetrator"
"I do not realize that I am a "perpetrator""
At this time, the homeroom teacher seemed to have understood well that I was a child who did not recognize bullying. I realized that the teacher took care of me.
If there was no indication from this teacher, I didn't notice
"My daily life makes me a "perpetrator of bullying"
I am afraid that I was too late to realize the fact, or at worst, I have never noticed that.
I haven't been very grateful to "teachers" (in most cases teachers were enemies for me), I am truly grateful for this.
(To be continued)